Why I’m Unmasking Education
I always knew school was harder for me than it seemed to be for others.
Reading and writing didn’t come easily. I was pulled out for intervention groups, made to carry around a black “spelling folder” that only reminded me I was behind. I masked my struggles, worked hard to keep up, and had no idea that the real reason for all of it had a name: AuDHD.
I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 35.
But even as a child, there were sparks, moments of belonging and joy that showed me what learning could feel like.
In Year 6, I had a teacher who saw me.
He brought creativity, engagement, and curiosity to life in the classroom. We sat in replica parliament seats, tracked our own stock portfolios in maths, solved riddles each morning, and completed hands-on projects that made me feel smart, excited, and capable.
That year, I received the Grade 6 academic scholarship, and it changed how I saw myself.
It also sparked something else:
That’s when I knew I wanted to be a teacher.
In high school, the struggle continued. I worked twice as hard just to keep up....and I did. But it always felt like I was paddling furiously under the surface while others coasted.
Years later, when I became a parent to neurodivergent children of my own, it was like something clicked.
Everything I’d experienced, every struggle, every mask, every creative strategy I’d clung to...suddenly made sense.
And for the first time, I could name it.
I was neurodivergent too.
Learning to support my own children gave me firsthand experience as a parent, a problem-solver, and an advocate.
And as an educator, I began applying those same strategies and understandings to my professional life...supporting students, leading teams, coaching teachers, and finding new ways to include all brains in learning.
In 2022, I wrote a children’s book called Unmasking Millie, a story for girls like me who didn’t know why school felt so hard—but carried on anyway. I’ve since written a follow-up, Managing Millie, because I want no child to grow up thinking they’re lazy or broken.
Now, after gaining a scholarship to study my Master of Inclusive Education, I finally feel like every part of my journey has led me here.
This is my purpose:
To unmask education.
To support students who feel unseen.
To empower educators with real strategies.
To help parents become confident advocates.
And to build a world where neurodivergent learners aren’t asked to change who they are in order to belong.
Because education should fit every brain...not the other way around.
Millie received a Bachelor of Education with Distinction in 2009 and is currently completing her Masters of Inclusive Education at Melbourne University.
Millie has appeared on a number of podcasts. Click the link to hear her most recent appearance.
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Yes! If the coaching supports your child's NDIS goals. The key is that support provided helps the child achieve their goals. This is commonly called "parent training or "capacity building for carers".
Yep! I can meet with you via:
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Just reach out and email me at milliecarr@unmaskingeducation.com.au and we can discuss your communication preferences!
There are two main categories where parent coaching can be claimed:
1. Capacity Building – Improved Daily Living
Most common for your services.
This category supports skill development for both the participant and those supporting them.
Your sessions could fall under:
• Parent training to help support emotional regulation, sensory needs, transitions, and behaviour
• Education navigation and advocacy skills (e.g. support with school meetings, IEPs, etc.)
• Building understanding of the child’s neurotype and needs
This is especially true if your coaching is related to helping the parent implement strategies, routines, or visuals that align with the child’s NDIS goals (e.g. communication, regulation, social inclusion).
2. Capacity Building – Improved Relationships
Sometimes applicable if your coaching supports the child’s relationships at school, home, or in the community (e.g. reducing masking, supporting social engagement, improving emotional safety).
A recommendation is not usually required, but it helps if our session content clearly aligns with a goal in the NDIS plan (e.g. regulation, communication, access to education, improved daily routines).
If you are self-managed or plan-managed.
• I can invoice you directly.
• I will include:
• My ABN
• A description of the session (e.g. “Parent coaching to support child’s sensory regulation and school inclusion”)
• Date/time, session length, cost
Yes—much easier.
• You pay directly and claim reimbursement through the portal.
• No need for formal agreements or registered provider status.
Plan-managed families can still work with me, but I invoice the plan manager instead of the family.
I can offer to help you word your claim for the portal or plan manager
• Create a short service description or invoice template for them to use
• Tie each session to relevant NDIS goals